The robot security was a nice touch but if I were that kid I’d hire that robot as a body guard.
Time goes by but it doesn’t feel like it does. Lily and I have been married for 19 years today.
What was it like back then?
- 19 years ago I was threatening Lily’s maid of honor with physical harm for being late and holding us up.
It all worked out for the best and we’re still great friends.
- 19 years ago my best man was making jokes on the altar while I was attempting to look serious in a rented monkey suit.
It was a Catholic mass. When he got married in a Tibetan Buddhist ceremony I paid him back by standing next to him and treating the priest’s chanting like it was something you dance to.
- 19 years ago Father Felix’s homily described our future life as me being married to June Cleaver.
We laughed as she’s not like that at all and none of the women in my family are either. That is such a good thing. I like being married to a modern woman.
- 19 years ago Lily and I almost dropped to the floor coming down the aisle together.
Her family thought those loud party poppers were a good idea in said Catholic church. That’s how they ended the ceremony with organ music and a big bang. We thought people were shooting at us.
It’s all the same and it’s all different.
There have been changes in the scenery meaning we’ve moved.
Our family has gained and lost members in that time and not everyone is still with us from that day. I don’t like to dwell on that as I learned too early that life goes on.
We’ve a boy and a girl. Raising a daughter scares me. I grew up with 3 brothers and a squad of cousins, there were very few girls in my family. Our son is a handful but so was I.
We’ve both changed but we’ve both stayed exactly the same. I’ve always felt like I have known her my entire life and I totally mistake that she wasn’t around for the first 21 years.
We usually don’t celebrate our anniversaries and we laugh together when we realize that we’ve missed one again.
19 years of being married? I would not change a thing and would do it all over again without hesitation. That’s got to be the best recommendation for married life that I can say. It’s been great and I’m still head over heels crazy for her.
Even though she’s married to a big kid I’m reasonably confident she feels the same way. I’ll ask her again, you know, just to make sure.
In our time together I’ve learned to reach for the stars and I look forward to at least 50 more anniversaries to come.
50 years is a good target. With Lily I can accomplish anything.
I wish I took a “before” picture but these rims used to look like white nylon.
I’m replacing the girl’s tires and soaked the nylon rims in Rit Kelly Green dye for about 2 minutes. They came out a little darker than I intended but the girl still likes them.
I recently received an e-mail from my free dynamic DNS provider that said I can upgrade for a fee or I can every month login and re-validate that I’m still using their service.
As I’ve been mooching off of them for over 8 years I really can’t blame them and I fully understand this change.
When I moved my domains to Namecheap one of the options they provide is dynamic DNS so that’s the solution for me. But my FIOS router doesn’t support Namecheap so I setup ddclient on my basement Linux server.
Using Namecheap’s support forum I found what I needed. This post is really my note to myself for when I wipe out my Linux server again and I wonder “How did I do that again?”
Enable Dynamic DNS for your domain
Login to your Namecheap control panel and enable dynamic DNS for your domain. You’ll get a really long password string to use. Save that for now as you’ll need it later on.
Create the DNS entry you want for your host as an A record
I created it with an entry of 127.0.0.1 just as place holder. I’m not sure if this step is really necessary as dynamic DNS should let you create new entries on the fly. But Namecheap’s page says to do it and there’s no harm in prepping for that A record.
Install the ddclient package on your Linux server
I’m using Ubuntu 12.04.2 LTS and the command is simply
sudo apt-get install ddclient
The debconf setup will ask you some questions, just put in what you like. You’ll need to change those values in /etc/ddclient.conf anyway.
Modify the ddclient.conf file
My /etc/ddclient.conf looks like this.
################ # ddclient.conf # namecheap ################ use=web, web=checkip.dyndns.com/, web-skip='IP Address' protocol=namecheap server=dynamicdns.park-your-domain.com login=my-domain.com password='ReallYLongStringLooksLikeMD5orso' my-server
Details have been changed to protect the innocent.
Don’t mess with the server= line, they’re not being cute that really is the name of the dynamic DNS client end point.
The debconf settings that were put in previously won’t work so I deleted /var/cache/ddclient/ddclient.cache and re-ran ddclient manually.
$ sudo rm /var/cache/ddclient/ddclient.cache $ sudo ddclient SUCCESS: updating my-server: good: IP address set to 220.127.116.11
Cool. My server in on my private network so I’m using what my IP address looks like to the outside world.
The ddclient is running as a daemon and when my DHCP assigned IP changes (FIOS does that frequently, no idea why) my basement server will still be resolvable as my-server.my-domain.com. The client will run as long as my server is booted. I use that for testing
dumb and harmful ideas and it’s always on.
DNS tranquility has been restored to my world.
This afternoon I had an appointment in Chinatown and when it was over I text messaged Lily to let her know I’m headed home.
Her reply should not have surprised me.
Can you get me some longan?
This is not really a good idea. I may have come back with cat food for all I know about fruit. Longan is a fruit right?
So I text back my “concerns” and get another not surprising reply.
You are there and I am not.
The cart on corner of Canal and Mulberry right next to the bank and Kam Man… The one I usually go to.
There is no reasoning with some people. I called her and walked over. Canal is crazy with vistors this time of year and it was more crowded than ever. It was $5 per lb and that was considered a good price. What do I know about how much it costs? I asked for 2 lbs.
The man started scooping up the loose longan for weighing. Full stop! I wanted the longan that was grouped together on the branch. I may not know anything about fruit but I do know that I’d really get it if I brought that home.
So now I’m headed home, typing this up, taking photos and sharing this from the train. Technology is grand but it’s no substitute for someone getting you the fruit you wanted.
I just hope Lily and our girl like it. Me and the boy won’t touch this stuff.
There are two types of people who play with R/C cars: serious racers and backyard bashers.
Racers are the one’s who start with an RTR or build-it-yourself kit and commence to customize their car for better acceleration, traction, and overall performance. They assemble their own tires, balance the wheels (on a 1/10 scale car!) tune the suspension, select and break in the motor etc.
Racers are hardcore R/C car enthusiasts. I don’t know any racers.
Backyard bashers are everyone else. Me and the kids are into bashing meaning we race around, jump of home made ramps and we break things. Here’s some tips.
Do your research and start with RTR kits
RTR kits stand for Ready-To-Race or Ready-To-Run depending on who you asked.
My brother got a couple of Traxxas Nitro cars but I decided that I wanted electric and shopped around for a good Kyosho model. My last R/C car was a Kyosho Ultima and I thought they’d have something for me.
That was a wake up call. Kyosho is a fine R/C car manufacturer but no one in Long Island sells them. So I went to look at blogs for inspiration and made my way to Jang’s UltimateRC YouTube channel and forums.
Jang’s reviews are really good. He covers what he likes and dislikes as well as does a durability montage. It was his Bandit XL-5 review that convinced me that the kids could handle getting one. We upgraded to the VXL LiPO version and the kids are having a blast.
Thanks to those YouTube videos I got a good idea that Traxxas is just right for durability.
If you do go electric stick with 7.4v LiPO batteries
My R/C car is a Traxxas Rustler VXL and the kids have a Bandit VXL each. They each came with a Traxxas 3300mah 7.4v 2s 25c battery. I wanted another battery so I took the advice of one of the hobby store guys (they’re very cool) and got a Venom 35C 3S 5000mAh 11.1v LiPO battery. Yay! More current! More voltage! The car goes noticeably faster!
It also doesn’t last as long. Using the 3300mah batteries I get about 20 minutes of run time. With the bigger 5000mah pack I get about 15. Going forward I may get a high capacity 7.4v battery but unless I’m racing (and I never will) I’ll stick with more play time versus more speed and power.
LiPO batteries are scary
OK they’re not really scary but the do have some risks especially if you puncture them: these batteries can catch fire. That’s if you abuse them; if you treat them as they should be handled then you will be fine.
This is the reason the kids cannot charge these batteries. When they get them to plugin into their cars I make sure to supervise them. They know to treat the batteries with respect and handle them carefully.
I haven’t yet but I am getting a LiPO charging bag as well as a fireproof box for storing them. I don’t really think I need that but A) you never know and B) parents need to set good safe examples for kids. Safety is not a game.
Visit and make friends with your local R/C dealer
You are going to break R/C car parts. Yes, you can get any of those parts online but getting them locally is faster and you’re local shop will take care of you.
I live near a shop called Elwood Hobbies and they’ve got parts, tools, kits, everything. I could probably rebuild my entire car just from the parts they already have in stock. If they do not have anything they’ll get it. They also service vehicles from big 1/8 scale nitro cars to R/C helicopters. They really know what they are doing and prevented me from making a few boneheaded mistakes already.
Find your local shop and get to know them. They’ll have parts plus advice and you’ll be glad you did.
Expect to buy upgrades
A not very sensitive friend of mine visited while I was replacing stub axle carriers on my son’s Bandit. My son broke them and I replaced them with aluminum versions. He summed up his thoughts concisely.
“Wow, what a scam! And the lexan shell uses cancer causing paint too???”
He’s like that. We all still like him anyway.
What he was referring to is that when I break things I upgrade to the anodized aluminum parts if I can. I didn’t just buy R/C cars (Lily is a very tolerant woman) I also had planned to maintain these cars.
This is not an inexpensive hobby. I limit the amount I spend simply by buying from a durable manufacturer. Our R/C cars will not win any races but high speed 10 foot jumps are usually alright.
Even if you destroy them it’s all good fun
This is a hobby and you may eventually ruin your toy. I mean R/C car. It’s happened to my brother and sort of happened to me in the past.
That’s fine and this hobby is all about fast, fun, and more fun. The kids and went to a parking lot nearby and had had hundreds of feet to zip around in all directions. It was great! And we broke all three of are cars in minor ways.
Using the tools that came with our cars (another upgrade coming soon) I was able to get 2 of the cars working for a while longer. But if the kids and I had wrecked them then we’d be upset but it would be alright. These little rockets move around 30 miles per hour and you can’t change physics.
I’m having a little unique fun with my kids. Even my daughter likes her customized R/C car (although I do wonder how much of this is just about competing with her brother). They’re learning to take care of their expensive toys and I’m learning to be more patient and tolerant of our mistakes. That experience alone makes me recommend these to any Dad.
For Father’s Day I celebrated by getting both kids an R/C car for their own. Since then they’ve broken pieces and we’ve visited the local hobby shop many times.
This is not a bad thing and it was all good clean fun.
When they break I’ve been showing the kids how to take apart different components of their cars. On the simple side they’ve installed wheelie bars and bumpers. On the more complicated side I’ve replaced the steering blocks and stub axle carriers with aluminum versions.
But the thing that I’m most pleased with is that my daughter asked me to get her a pink body for her R/C car. They don’t make them pink so I’d gotten a ProGraphix Bandit body, a can Tamiya florescent pink paint and Pactra white paint.
I put many coats on the underside of the Tamiya paint and once it dried I then backed it with mores layers from the Pactra white paint. The Tamiya paint went on thin and clear; I always have problems with Tamiya paints. I’ve used their acrylic spray paint for my Gundam models and it just pools easily and goes on thin.
The Pactra paint was fantastic and next time I’m sticking with just that brand. It applies in good even coats and doesn’t run.
The end result was worth it.
I only take credit for the color, the lines and pattern came from the factory. It still looks awesome.
She really likes it and for a while today she was very hesitant to play with it. But I explained that these were meant to be used and I can always get a replacement body. She was back to crashing in very little time! Good fun.
I have a similar photo of my son with his blue version (blue stock body from the factory) but he looked like he was swallowing a lemon so I’ll post a different photo some other time.
We need to go to a parking lot more often. The three of use zipping up and down my narrow street has resulted in some interesting crashes. My son is at the moment is the best driver out of us but I expect the girl to give him a run for his money real soon now.
Oh and being the kid’s R/C mechanic? It’s a great job and I think they may continue to give me their business.
Anyone who’s even given my blog a quick look can see that I’m all about my amusements. For the longest time that has been photography. I still love taking and sharing photos but lately I’ve been consumed with a new old hobby.
Radio controlled 1/10 scale cars! Vroom VROOM BABY!
Ahem. I’d first gotten into the hobby in college more than 20 years ago (what???) with a Kyosho Ultima, which I quickly wrecked by t-boning a concrete wall. The chassis was bent in a U shape but I was able to recover most of the parts and put them on a replacement carbon fiber chassis with a new Lexan body.
That was 1987 or so. It’s always been an expensive hobby. I think I was working at a White Castle when I bought that kit.
Now move up to 2013. Stefan recently got hold of a Traxxas Nitro Rustler (a modern 1/10 nitro powered truggy) and since I have a large back yard I got to play with it and had a great time. So I dug out my old R/C car and borrowed an old Futaba controller.
More than 20 years later it worked! But not too well. A lot of things changed in the hobby in that time. Un-assembled kits are more expensive and all the big R/C car companies are selling Ready-to-Run kits that you just charge the battery and go. The batteries and ESC improved along with the motors.
Those little monsters take off like a rocket. After some
healthy rationalization thoughtful consideration Lily and I went to a hobby shop and picked up the electric version of the one Stefan has. His is red, mine is silver.
It’s still an expensive and addictive hobby. This morning I took the Dremel and cut slots so that I can Velcro strap down the battery. In the weeks that I’ve been playing with it I’ve replaced the front broken caster blocks with aluminium ones as well as the stock tires with Pro-line Dirt Hawgs. Add a new Lexan body (I scratched and put holes in the original and have to paint this one) and it’s beginning to add up.
The kids (yes, my daughter too) and I love it though and that’s the point of all this really. You have to have something that you like to do outside of what you do for a living.
That’s not a hard rule of course. I like and have lots of fun at work and I’m part of a good team. But it’s work and you have to take that seriously even if you enjoy it.
Playing with the kids and spending time on these toys has no consequences other than possibly wasting my time and money. They thinks it’s cool and just zipping up and down the street can be great fun.
Here’s a YouTube video of just that.
That’s why I’ll continue to find new things all the time to get into. It’s really all about my amusement.